Most men who cheat do it because they wanted something new which their present lover is not open-minded enough for. If you don’t give him or al, he’ll get it elsewhere…
It is not a lie to say that many men are sneaky, selfish and greedy when it comes to s ex, romance and love.
They are selfish in the sense that they make the s ex experience about them, chasing their own or ga sms while forgetting that women need extra help toexperience the bliss.
They are greedy because they like to go after different kinds of women with different kinds of body shapes and different kinds of bedroom habits – Cynthia for or al s ex, Titi for a nal s ex, Hauwa for bon dage s ex and…
So you’ll find a man with a gorgeous wife/girlfriend still crawling night clubs looking for easy pick-ups.
Why?
It is easy to quickly say men cheat for s ex simply because they are wired to just cheat for s ex.
But sometimes (though not always), it is the women who cause it and here are the ways they do so:
- You’re too passive in bed – s ex is about two people using their bodies and mind together to make pleasure. So you must be active, participate and engage…
- You punish him with s ex – it is wrong to always deny your man sex anytime you have a little quarrel. That is only cuing him to go look for s ex elsewhere…
- You always wait for him to initiate s ex – s ex is about you two, so you need to be the one asking sometimes. When it becomes only him asking, you make him look like a s ex addict. If his appetite is large, he might go outside…
- You make s ex look like a duty you’d rather not do – if you want to have s ex, involve your mind and body. Otherwise, just say no. it hurts a man to have s ex with a woman who acts like she is just doing him a favour unwillingly…
- You are not open-minded in the bedroom – most men who cheat do it because they wanted something new which their present lover is not open-minded enough for. If you don’t give him or al, he’ll get it elsewhere…