When a single man falls head over heals with a married woman, jealousy, guilty and misery takes centre stage in his life. Why does he become so sad instead?
Having sex with a married woman could be just for the fun until the man falls in love with her body, the way she speaks, the way she carries herself, her elegance and the way she quickly spends on him. It takes less time for things to change for the worse… and life suddenly becomes miserable with the fear to ask her to divorce her husband running through your mind at every given minute.
Well, here are six ways men's lives get ruined when they fall for the wrong woman:
1.) You constantly live in guilt:
There's always this feeling that you are doing something wrong every time you spend time together. "What if her husband is spying on us?" "What will I say, if we are caught?" "What will her kids be thinking of me?" These questions go on without answers leaving you feeling guilty for banging someone else's wife.
2.) You are constantly living a lie
Living a secret life is as hard as not telling your mother you took her last dollar from her wallet when she needed it the most. You're always in fear for the unknown. You can't tell your friends or your family who you are in love with. You are always hiding from the people you love to make "her" feel safe and comfortable. Love ones start losing trust in you too fast, yet there's still no explanation.
3.) You are constantly living in jealousy
When sex with her becomes the one and only thing you love and need, then the thought of her husband sharing a bed with her makes you run mad in anger. When will she divorce him? Why hasn't she left him yet? Suddenly, you can't stand sharing the women you love with another person -- even when you know she's married!
4.) You miss out on real love
Being in love with a married woman keeps your heart from welcoming true love, even when it stands before you. You can't even recognize or appreciate single and attractive women any more… because you still hope "she" will leave her husband for you "soon". You find yourself being faithful to the wrong woman!
5.) You have no real relationship
Dating and falling in love with a married woman leave you with an edited highlights of a marriage: the laughter, the smiles, the sex but no real relationship built on love, trust and sacrifices. You lack emotional closeness and real intimacy which true lovers have. You end up frustrated and your self-esteem take a south turn.
