Men, wake up and take note! It's time you know the difference between a true big girl and a typical Nigerian big girl. Who have you been dating or having sex with?
Popular Cameroonian film maker Gilbert Agbor has taken to to his Facebook page to define who a true"big girl" isn as his own means to help his fellow men know who they want to date or are already dating.
To him, a big girl is a woman with dignity who doesn't boast about her fat bank account or the number of men she's had sex with but is focused on being a great role model in her community. However, there's more...
Who's a Naija big girl?
- The fact that different guys pick you up every Friday night does not make you a big girl.
- The fact that you wear all latest clothes in the market, does not make you a big girl.
- The fact that you use the latest phone, big phones, iPad, blackberry, android, Samsung Galaxy and different men pay money into your account does not make you a big girl.
- For the fact that you have entered almost all the biggest hotels in the city with different guys, does not make you a big girl. It does not even make you smart! You are only eating up your future.
- The fact that you dress half naked and you wear clothes that expose your cleavages and definitely makes you look sexy does not make you a big girl. You are just too cheap.
A true big girl
- A big girl is a girl with enough brain in her, not the one with more money.
- The girl that thinks of consequences before actions.
- She is not the one who flirts with all men around her.
- She is the one who respects her relationship and marriage.
- She is never heard but seen.
- You know her by what she does, her behavior speaks a lot about her.
- She is every man's queen, decently dressed and yes, always decently good looking.
- A big girl respects the value of womanhood and carries herself with more dignity.
How would you define a typical Nigerian 'big girl' in your neighbourhood?