For Women 5 things you must do if you’ve never had an org asm

Not every woman will be able to reach the big ‘O’, but if this is truly your goal then you should consider these tips.

Orgasm 

If you have to ask if you have ever had an orgasm, chances are, you haven’t. Achieving orgasm is something you absolutely notice, no question about it.

Unfortunately, not every woman will be able to reach the big ‘O’, but if this is truly your goal then you should consider these 5 tips below.

Masturbate:

An orgasm is not accidental. It is something you or your partner work towards. Most women do not even know what turns them on, and they leave hundred percent of their pleasure to their men. A man usually knows what he wants.  He knows the positions that gets him off and he knows how he wants you to touch him, this is because, he knows his body. Due to the stigma attached to female masturbation, most women do not know their bodies, thus it is hard to know how to stimulate themselves the right way. If you are interested in figuring out what gets you off, you should consider masturbation. Explore your body to find what works then let your partner know. This way, he can take you to bliss.

Sex  Toys:

This is another great way to reach the peak. For a woman to orgasm, she has to be thoroughly stimulated, and often times, the penis alone does not do the trick. Incorporating sex toys can help you get there. You can get the bullet vibrator which can be used to stimulate your clitoris while he thrusts, or anal toys which can stimulate the erogenous zones around your anus. Nipple clamps also help keep you excited by keeping your nipples stimulated, no matter the sex position, while a dildo could do a lot to help. Point is, you and your partner should not be afraid of toys. They will not replace your partner, they will only improve your sexual pleasure, so, get some today.

Oral sex:

The vast majority of women find it difficult to orgasm through penetration alone, so if orgasm is your goal, get your man on board with oral sex. Talk to him about devoting some time towards going down on you and pushing the right buttons with his mouth, tongue or even fingers. These are flexible body parts and can easily maneuver all the sweet spots in your vagina.

Fall in love:

Sex, for women, is more emotional than physical. We are more likely to enjoy a good time if we have strong feelings for our partners. This also goes for orgasms. We need that connection, freedom, and safety that comes with being with someone we love so we can truly let go. If you are not connected to your partner this way, it is unlikely that you will orgasm.

Find your fantasy:

What turns you on? What do you fantasize about? Does your partner know about your sexual fantasies? If he does not, then it is time to tell him. Think about what truly makes you hot. Do you like role play? Do you enjoy dominating your man? Would you like him to bind you and have his naughty way with you? You need to know what your basic sexual preference is, talk to your man about it and see which ones he can fulfill. If you are being presented your fantasies in the bedroom, you are very likely to orgasm.

Caveat: If after all these, you still find it difficult to reach the peak, do not despair. Just because you did not orgasm does not mean the sex was terrible or you did not have a good time. Orgasms might be the highest pleasure point for men, but a woman can still enjoy a gret sex session without cumming.